In terms of what happens after a relationship ends, there’s something about what occurs to couples who were hyperactive sexually that always perplexed me (and a lot of other folks). Frankly, if you’re with somebody and the sex is off the chain but then you two find fault somewhere else – sex will usually bring the two of you back together no matter what. However, here’s a scenario that needs to be answered and situated once and for all:

Late night, you’re all alone and your mind is pondering some things that are best saved for a round of #TwitterAfterDark. Thing is, you don’t have anybody coming up on the horizon to quell your desires and you feel masturbating is only cheapening the experience. So you decide ot pull out your phone and scan over the people whom you’ve last sweated out a Dream, R. Kelly or Trey Songz CD to and pick somebody, hoping they’ll respond and aid you in your quest to let off some sexual tension.

Do you go through with it knowing that the consequences range in the potential of somebody catching old feelings? Or do you leave it alone and hope that thoughts of baseball or Greg Oden’s junk will help rid you of impure thoughts?

It’s why some folks call it that “Emergency Dick/Pussy In A Glass” card. And if you are unaware of a few things on how post-relationship interactions work, the card usually gets maxed out on a routine basis. Why might you ask? Here’s a few reasons off top.

Sex Is A Powerful Thang

Especially good sex. If you happen to know somebody who happens to have that thang and hasn’t changed religions or ideals recently, you will call them up one night hoping they share your feelings. As much as you might want to keep it strictly sexual, some people get the difference between fuckin’ and making love confused. Which probably makes it all the more complicated.

Idle Mind = _____ Playground

Doesn’t matter who you deal with on a deity basis, if you let your mind get away from being focused, things like this happen. You tend to pry on people’s emotions and feelings and might guilt trip them into owning things simply because you want closure. There’s no closure in a late night smash session at a ‘telly, that only opens up even more potential smash sessions.

Best. You. Ever. Had.

I’ve explained it before and I’ll explain it again. You call on one person and hope they pick up the phone because quite simply, they throw dine when it comes to giving up the good (and I doubt Just Brittany’s good is any good if she’s selling it on the radio). It might be a memory when you catch a glimpse of them on a social networking site but something in your brain clicks to the moment you and that person were together and you cannot let it go. Mainly because after them, everybody else just wasn’t up to par.

Those are three to name a few. Like I said, consequences always range from starting something you might regret in the long run just because of letting your body get the best of your mind. But it’s not like anybody has never used that card before, because there are way too many single people out there with previous relationships who don’t feel the need to find someone new and instead decide to break that glass down.

And max that “call me for the good” card out.

Brando

EIC of Day & A Dream, Brando has written for such publications as DJ Booth, Refined Hype & the Houston Press. Wrestling enthusiast, sneaker addict, sports junkie and certified cake eater. Follow him on Twitter: @_brandoc

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